We all know that curvy ladies can be just as beautiful as skinny girls. Sure, BBW ladies in general might have a few more challenges to overcome, but bigger ladies are in just as much demand as their skinnier peers.
Most BBWs are more than comfortable in their own skin. They’re not damsels in distress and they don’t need anyone to save them. However, it doesn’t matter how comfortable a curvy lady is with their size, the way a person addresses them can significantly affect their confidence levels.
And the bigger they are, the more issues they face from society. Some people believe that because a woman is large, she’s unhappy or she’s struggling in some aspect of her life. This isn’t true at all, and BBWs like guys who understand this.
So if you’re dating a BBW or an SSBBW and want to make sure you’re doing everything right, keep these three points in mind:
Never mention her size or weight
Most SSBBWs already know that there’s millions of guys out there who only want them because of their weight. However, it’s very important to not be one of these guys. Super-sized ladies don’t want to think of themselves as some sideshow curiosity. They’re women, so it’s important to treat them as such. She needs to know that you like her for her rather than her body.
Sure, you might have chosen her based on the fact she’s a super-sized big beautiful woman, but the perks of her shapely figure will come once you’ve successfully wooed her without mentioning that you find her figure irresistible.
Don’t limit your dating activities
Just because she’s a super-sized lady doesn’t mean that physical dates are completely out of the question. If you purposely avoid anything other than taking her to a restaurant, she’s going to think you’re making assumptions about her capabilities. Feel free to ask her whether she wants to go for a walk around a nature reserve or go swimming in a lake somewhere. This will let her know that you’re capable of looking past her size to the real person underneath.
In most cases, she’ll probably be more than happy to sit at a restaurant and have a great meal, but it’s important not to assume.
Be open to new experiences
Super-sized ladies tend to be have quite experimental characters. These are the kinds of women who are happy to indulge in things that feel good, so this doesn’t mean sitting around watching TV every night. If your SSBBW date wants to head to an art gallery, a mini-golf course or a wine-tasting class, don’t hesitate to accept. By the same token, she’ll enjoy the fact that you’re happy to parade around public places with her. Some SSBBW women worry that their partners might be too scared to admit to the world that they’re dating someone who’s on the large side, so this will work doubly in your favor.
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